Relaxation techniques

Findings from numerous scientific studies indicate that relaxation techniques are effective in reducing certain somatic and psychopathological symptoms; in particular, they alleviate anxiety, reduce depressive symptoms, and lessen perceived somatic pain. Consequently, they can be used independently of treatment or as an adjunct to psychotherapy.

You can read about their effectiveness in, among others:

Rapid Relaxation Techniques That Work

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Recent research on stress points to the key role of one’s attitude toward stress (stress mindset) in the coping process. It has a significant relationship with the benefits derived from stress and its potential harmfulness.stress mindsetThus, the myth about the harmfulness of stress has been debunked, and the description of the mechanism of action and effects of stress has been expanded to include the potential benefits of experiencing it (Crum, Salovey i Achor, 2013).

I present selected, shorter techniques that can be used on an ad hoc basis in cases of high arousal (if we decide to reduce it rather than use the generated energy constructively) and those that take more time but, when used regularly (e.g., Jacobson’s relaxation training at least 2 – 3 times a week), reduce tension for longer periods.

EXTENDING THE EXHALATION

Start by counting how many breaths you take in 1 minute without changing your breathing pace (one breath consists of an inhalation and an exhalation). Then take normal inhalations while extending your exhalations as much as possible.

Imagine that you are exhaling slowly through your mouth as if through a straw until your lungs are completely empty. Then, the inhalation happens automatically.

Continue counting your breaths per minute. If you reach 4–6 breaths per minute, you will begin to calm down quickly. Continue until you reach 4–6 breaths per minute. Maintain this pace until you experience a state of relaxation that satisfies you.

DIAFRAGMATIC BREATHING

Deep breathing is the simplest tool for relaxing the body and releasing mental tension.

Sit comfortably with your back straight, place one hand on your chest, and the other on your abdomen just above your navel. Take a breath—inhale through your nose and feel your abdomen rise. The hand resting on your chest should rise only slightly. Exhale through your mouth. Gradually lengthening your exhale, it should be longer than your inhale. Focus on your breath.

If your attention wanders, you can count your exhalations. A good way to deepen relaxation through breathing is to focus on your breath while silently repeating a key word, such as health, peace, happiness, or freedom. Some people find it easier to count their breaths—from one to four and back to one (counting only the exhalations). The point is to give our mind something to do so it can rest from routine problems and also focus on working with the breath.

Deep diaphragmatic breathing is more effective and safer than sedatives. The diaphragm and brain send a signal to the brain that everything is okay. Practice deep, conscious breathing until you feel you’re doing it effortlessly.

If you can’t lift your belly as you inhale, change your position. Lie down and press your belly with your hand or place a thick book on it, then try to push it upward as you draw air into your lungs.

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VISUALIZING A SAFE PLACE

Another tool for coping with stress can be your imagination. Visualization exercises involve, for example, imagining a safe place where you could forget about your stress and relax.

Sit comfortably in a quiet place, close your eyes, and transport yourself to your own oasis of peace. It can be a place you’ve already been to or one you dream of. It’s easier, especially at first, with places you’ve visited before, because you know their nooks and crannies and details. Then, during visualization, you recall everything rather than having to make it up on the spot. It’s important that the place be peaceful. Attractions and rapidly changing activity will have a stimulating effect.

Find a quiet place where you can be alone for 20–30 minutes a day. Sit comfortably. You can lie down, as long as you don’t fall asleep. Relax, especially your hands, shoulders, and facial muscles (we often unconsciously clench our jaws). Quiet your mind. Take a few deep breaths and long exhales. Close your eyes.

Transport your thoughts to your place, your oasis, your peaceful haven. Imagine this place with all your senses. Hear the birds singing or the sound of the waves. Feel the grass beneath your feet, touch the bark of the trees. Smell the flowers, the freshly cut grass, or the air right after the rain. Taste the raspberries, the water from the stream, your grandmother’s cake. Look around. The longer you stay there, the more amazing details you’ll notice. You can walk, lie down and look at the sky, or sit and admire the views. It’s your imagination, so there are no limits. Feel however you want to feel—full of peace and contentment. If negative thoughts arise, stay calm; notice them, but don’t focus on them. Concentrate on your pleasant and safe place. Breathe slowly, calmly, and deeply. Enjoy this moment just for yourself.

With regular practice, you’ll find it easier and easier to return to your safe place. It will be accessible to you on the bus, at work, wherever you need it. Just close your eyes for a moment, bring it to mind, and then draw pleasure and peace from it.

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MEDITATION

The goal of meditation (and, more broadly, mindfulness) is not relaxation. Relaxation is a positive side effect. Meditation is meant to allow us to experience our true selves—the part of the mind known as, among other things, the “observing self” or the “transcendent self.”

Mindfulness can be practiced in many ways, e.g., by focusing on the breath; by scanning the body with attention, from head to toe, similar to muscle relaxation; by taking a calm walk (walking meditation) and focusing on each successive step; by eating mindfully—instead of eating chocolate in front of the TV (which for some is a natural reflex during times of stress), sit down with your food in silence and savor every bite. If your mind wanders during meditation—and this is practically inevitable—simply return gently to your practice, without judging yourself.

Find a quiet place where you can sit comfortably and won’t be disturbed. When sitting in a chair, your feet should rest flat on the floor, the base of your spine should touch the backrest, and your back must be straight (you can also sit on a meditation cushion or in the Japanese sitting position with a straight spine). Place your hands on your knees, palms down (research indicates that this hand position fosters more positive emotions). You can also choose a different position that makes you feel alert and relaxed. Keep your eyes closed. If this bothers you, focus your gaze on a single spot on the floor in front of you or on another ordinary object, such as a candle.

Take a few deep breaths. Pay attention to what you feel. Where do you feel your breath? Is it in your nostrils? In your chest? In your abdomen? What is the sequence of sensations with each inhale and exhale? Now breathe normally. You no longer need to deepen your breath or influence it in any other way. Just breathe, but continue to observe what is happening with your breath. How do you feel each inhalation? How do you feel each exhalation? Experience each inhalation and exhalation with focus. Each one is yours—alive—here and now.

Incoming thoughts may absorb you. This is normal. Straying from the path of the present moment is almost inevitable. Expect this. Instead of burdening yourself with unnecessary negativity, simply notice that your attention has wandered and return to your breath. Experiment with the perspective of an observer of your thoughts and emotions.

Fredrickson, B. L. (2011). Pozytywność. Poznań: Zysk i S-ka Wydawnictwo.

To gently signal the passage of time during meditation, you can use Mindfulness Bell.

EYE MOVEMENT TECHNIQUE

Sometimes relaxation alone isn’t enough. We need to distance ourselves from the flood of repetitive thoughts. In such a situation, the eye movement technique is helpful.

1. Recall a situation that was difficult for you, in which you experienced intense emotions, such as anger or fear. Rate the intensity of the emotion you are reliving on a scale of 1 to 10.

2. Move your gaze from one end of the room to the other, or spread your knees apart and shift your gaze from one knee to the other. The eye movement should be calm and smooth—back and forth, back and forth. Repeat this 25 times. One movement is a back-and-forth glance. Don’t think about anything specific. Focus on the eye movements.

3. After 25 eye movements, rate the intensity of the negative emotion again on a scale of 1 to 10. Has it decreased?

4. Repeat everything from the beginning. Recall the difficult situation and the thoughts that trigger negative emotions once more, and keep them in mind until you reach a 6 on a scale of 1 to 10. Then stop thinking about it and start practicing the eye movements. After 25 movements, reassess the intensity of your negative emotions. You may find that you are even calmer this time than before.

5. Repeat everything from the beginning, but with your eyes closed. In some situations, moving your eyes might be awkward, so it’s worth learning to do this exercise with your eyelids closed. It will look as if you’re resting.

In everyday situations, after sufficient practice, you will no longer need to recall difficult situations, but you will be able to immediately proceed to the eye movements when you realize that your thoughts are triggering negative emotions.

McKay, M. i Paleg, K. (2008). Kiedy złość niszczy twój związek. Gdańsk: GWP.

JACOBSON TRAINING

A simple and effective relaxation method is Jacobson training (also known as the Jacobson method). It involves learning to relax all parts of the body by alternately tensing and relaxing specific muscle groups.

Jacobson’s training involves tensing and relaxing the muscles of the hands, relaxing (also through light tensing and relaxing) the muscles of the head and face, the tongue, the shoulder muscles, then the back and abdominal muscles, and finally the muscles of the fingers and toes. Traditionally, therefore, Jacobson’s training is divided into 6 parts—we start by learning to relax the muscles of the hands and legs, and end by learning to relax the fingers.

An example of applying the Jacobson method:

  • Clench both fists — notice the tension in your hands and forearms — relax.
  • Touch your shoulders with your fingers and raise your arms — notice the tension in your biceps and arms — relax.
  • Shrug your shoulders, raising them as high as possible — notice the tension in your shoulders — relax.
  • Furrow your brow — notice the tension in your forehead and around your eyes — relax.
  • Squeeze your eyelids shut — notice the tension — relax your muscles with your eyes slightly closed.
  • Press your tongue against the roof of your mouth — notice the tension in your mouth — relax.
  • Clench your teeth — notice the tension in your mouth and jaw — relax.
  • Tilt your head back — notice the tension in your neck and upper back — rest.
  • Lower your head, press your chin to your chest — notice the tension in your neck and shoulders — relax.
  • Arch your back away from the chair’s backrest and pull your shoulders back — notice the tension in your back and shoulders — relax.
  • Take a deep breath and hold it — notice the tension in your chest and back — relax.
  • Take two deep breaths, hold, and exhale — notice that your breathing becomes slower and calmer — rest.
  • Pull your abdomen in, trying to press it against your spine — notice the feeling of tension in your abdomen — relax, breathe regularly.
  • Tense your abdominal muscles — notice the tension in your abdomen — rest.
  • Tighten your buttocks so that you lift yourself slightly off the ground — notice the tension — rest.
  • Tighten your thighs while straightening your legs — notice the tension — rest.
  • Point your toes upward, toward your face — notice the tension in your feet and calves — rest.
  • Curl your toes as if you wanted to bury them in the sand — notice the tension in the balls of your feet — rest.

Another variation of the training is to work on selected body parts for a while until we learn to relax them. Then we move on to the next areas, which we practice with for a while. For example, we work with the muscles of the arms (forearm and upper arm muscles): we tense this area of the body and observe the sensations when the arm muscles are tense, and then we relax all the muscles in this area and observe the sensations we have when the muscles are relaxed. In this way, we develop an awareness of what it means (what the sensation is) for a given area to be relaxed.

We perform this alternating tensing and relaxing several times during the formal exercise, and then repeat similar exercises in everyday life. For example, while walking on the sidewalk, riding the bus, watching TV, or listening to music or a lecture—we tense the muscles of our hand for a moment—we observe the sensations during this tension, and then we completely relax the muscles in that area and again observe the sensations when the muscles are relaxed.

Thanks to this, we reach a stage where we can deeply relax the muscles of our hands in any situation. Then we can continue with similar exercises for the leg muscles for a while. Next, we practice this way with the facial muscles, then the tongue, then the back and abdomen, and finally the fingers and toes.

A free recording of the Jacobson training is available at relaksacja.pl

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AUTOGENIC TRAINING ACCORDING TO SCHULTZ

This technique may be controversial due to the time of its origin and the use of hypnotic interventions.

Over half a century ago, Johannes Heinrich Schultz (1884–1970) introduced autogenic training into therapy (from the Greek auto, “self,” and genesis, “origin”). This scholar was a dermatologist by training and only later became interested in neurology and psychotherapy.

Schultz arrived at autogenic training through hypnosis. While working at the Institute of Hypnosis in Wrocław, he noticed that hypnotized subjects consistently experienced two typical states: heaviness and warmth in various parts of the body, which he interpreted as the beginning of a “switch” in the autonomic nervous system. From earlier work by his colleagues, Schultz knew that such a switch could be initiated by the patient themselves. This provided him with the basis for developing the autogenic training (AT) method.

Basic positions in AT

In AT, essentially any position in which the body can relax is permitted. Some AT practitioners, for example, choose the position in which they usually fall asleep. Once you have decided on a particular position, you should always use it; otherwise, success in the exercise will be slow to come. In practice, three basic positions have proven effective:

Most practitioners prefer the supine position, in which the relaxed body rests comfortably on a firm surface, with the head slightly elevated on a pillow. The arms are slightly bent at the elbows, the hands rest loosely by the thighs, and the toes point slightly outward. Sometimes this position causes discomfort in the back or chest, especially for people with spinal conditions (lordosis). In such cases, additional pillows or blankets are needed to place under the back, knees, or lower back to ensure comfort.

For the passive sitting position, a chair with a high backrest to support the head and armrests on the sides is needed so that the arms can rest freely on them. The legs, slightly apart, rest on the floor; one should never cross one leg over the other.

In classes, participants generally practice in the active sitting position. It is also known as the “coachman’s position,” because in the past, coachmen used to sit in this relaxed position on the box seat. First, we straighten up and stretch the spine, then we lean forward freely. It is important not to compress the abdomen, which is especially important for overweight individuals. The arms, slightly bent at the elbows, rest flat on the thighs and should not touch, as this is distracting. The legs are slightly apart. The head hangs loosely forward, the jaw is lowered, but the mouth should not be opened.

As a rule, AT practitioners always close their eyes, regardless of the position in which they are practicing.

Basic AT Exercises

Basic AT training consists of six exercises. Beginners perform it three times a day if possible, and at least twice—preferably in the morning, immediately after waking up, and in the evening before falling asleep—and once more during the day, for example during lunch break or right after work.

The phrases associated with the exercise are generally recalled only in one’s mind, without speaking them aloud. Only if the desired result is not achieved should one try to whisper them quietly or record them on a cassette and play them back so that they are barely audible.

Beginners do not immediately succeed in fully concentrating on the phrases. Other thoughts often arise, but you should not dwell on them; instead, persistently return to the AT phrases and start over from the beginning if you have become very distracted. If the practice occasionally fails completely, you can repeat the phrases purely mechanically or pause the exercise and return to it later (but try not to skip it if possible). As you gain practice, distractions will become increasingly rare, as the activity becomes more automatic.

The basic program consists of six exercises, which take a total of twelve weeks. At the beginning and after every six repetitions, the formula of calm is always recited; at the end, the state achieved during the training is recalled.

The Calming Formula

This formula was incorporated into the training by Prof. Schultz as a “reminder of the exercise’s purpose.” It goes: I am completely calm.

The training begins with a very decisive, single invocation of this suggestion; to enhance its effect, one may take a deep breath. As the training continues, this calming formula is repeated once after every six repetitions of the other phrases.

The Reversal Formula

By imagining a sense of heaviness, warmth, and a cool forehead, objectively measurable physical changes are induced. These are primarily triggered by the autonomic nervous system, which operates independently of our will, altering blood flow and muscle tension in such a way that the suggestions become reality.

During training, these physical changes are desirable, but in everyday life they are a hindrance. Therefore, at the end of the training session, these states are reversed through a single suggestive recitation of the formula: I bend and straighten my arms — I breathe deeply — I open my eyes!

While visualizing this, you vigorously move your arms, breathe deeply, and then open your eyes.

If you forget this reversal, you may still experience an unpleasant sensation for some time, primarily in your limbs — which, while not dangerous, is certainly not pleasant. To eliminate it, briefly return to the autogenic training once more, then vigorously reverse the state remaining after the exercise.

Such cancellation is unnecessary if something suddenly interrupts the training, such as a phone call or the doorbell, because such a “shock” abruptly breaks the state of relaxation. If you fall asleep during training, there is also no need to cancel, because the relaxation then transitions into natural sleep.

As training continues, the individual states occur more and more quickly and distinctly, until they become a reflex, appearing practically within a minute, without the need for prolonged repetition of the suggestion. Depending on a person’s suggestibility, this may occur after just a few weeks, but sometimes only after several months. In any case, persistent training two or three times a day is always necessary.

Once this advanced state has been achieved, the suggestions are combined into the following abbreviated formula, which need only be recalled very intensely just once:

Calm - weight - warmth -

Heart and breath completely calm and steady -

Solar plexus radiates warmth -

Forehead pleasantly cool (once)

A skilled person, after recalling this formula, achieves deep relaxation and can quickly rest, calm down, or positively influence themselves. At the end of the training, as usual, you should reverse the state of relaxation by reciting the adopted formula:

I bend and straighten my arms — I breathe deeply — I open my eyes.

By using abbreviated suggestions, you can take advantage of many opportunities throughout the day, while sitting in a relaxed position, for brief, unnoticeable training. Furthermore, this creates the conditions for transitioning, if necessary, to a higher level of AT, which we will eventually reach.

Positive autosuggestion does not necessarily mean that a state of deep relaxation can be achieved within a few minutes. In principle, it is recommended to wait until the state of a cool forehead is reached during basic training. As a trial, one may start earlier if necessary, but you should then expect a result that is often delayed and weaker. The autosuggestion formulas are repeated thirty times before recalling the states achieved in the exercise, while deeply immersing yourself in their content.

The Application of Autogenic Training

Preventing the effects of stress and lifestyle-related diseases is considered the primary area of application for autogenic training. Exercise, physical activity, and a balanced diet, together with AT, could form the foundation of preventive medicine. For healthy individuals, AT helps prevent many diseases; in particular, it stabilizes the well-being of people who are not yet ill but no longer feel fully healthy.

AT — either on its own or in combination with other psychotherapeutic treatments—can have a beneficial effect on mental disorders, provided that patients are still capable of using autosuggestion. Finally, AT can also be helpful in the treatment of organic diseases.

Autogenic training supports other psychotherapeutic treatments, and in some cases suffices as the sole method of treatment. Psychoses and certain neuroses do not respond to the training. Patients suffering from them are generally no longer able to practice AT regularly or are unable to perform it at all.

First and foremost, the following applications of AT, which offer hope for recovery, should be mentioned:

- nervousness (up to explosive aggression), excitability, and irritability,

- depression, anxiety, test anxiety, shyness, inhibitions, fear of blushing, feelings of inferiority,

- sexual disorders caused by psychological factors,

- psychosomatic illnesses, such as stomach ulcers and anxiety associated with heart disease (angina pectoris),

- sleep disorders of various origins, nervous exhaustion,

- addictions and dependencies on drugs, nicotine, and alcohol; an adjunctive method in the treatment of drug addiction.

Organic and Psychosomatic Diseases

In the case of organic ailments, which may in part be caused by psychological disorders and take on a psychosomatic character, AT often contributes to alleviating symptoms and mobilizing the body’s immune defenses, allowing for a faster recovery from the disease. AT cannot replace proper treatment of the causes of organic disease with appropriate medications. However, since the nervous system plays a specific role in most diseases, a beneficial effect of TA can also be expected in cases involving organic conditions. Such a beneficial effect may occur, for example, in the following diseases or conditions:

- digestive system disorders, e.g., vomiting, diarrhea, constipation, nervous swallowing of air and other swallowing disorders, stomach and duodenal ulcers,

- in the prevention of heart attacks and post-hospital care, therapy for a “nervous” heart,

- respiratory ailments, e.g., hay fever, bronchial asthma,

- women’s health issues, e.g., painful menstruation, menopause, as well as preparation for childbirth,

- pain of various causes, e.g., headaches and migraines, toothaches, neuralgias, rheumatic pain, and relief of phantom pain following amputations, sensitivity to weather changes, overweight, skin conditions (e.g., warts, itching).

Side Effects in AT

In most cases, the phenomena accompanying the exercises are harmless effects of the body’s vegetative shift and relaxation. They occur, for example, when strong tension in certain brain centers is released under the influence of relaxing phrases, so they are desirable phenomena. If one ignores them and continues training consistently, they generally subside on their own. Nevertheless, the practitioner should be aware of them but, even if frightened by them, should not give up further training. Exercising for too long can cause cramps, and in some cases, previously achieved results may be lost.

Such accompanying phenomena may include:

- muscle twitching or tremors and sensory disturbances (tingling, burning, tension, a sensation of painful heaviness, or numbness), occurring primarily during exercises associated with sensations of heat and heaviness;

- coughing, yawning, sneezing, watery eyes, excessive salivation, and occasionally sexual arousal, including sensations resembling an orgasm (ejaculation);

- during heart and breathing exercises, a dull feeling of pressure around the heart, palpitations and stabbing pains in the heart, breathing difficulties up to and including attacks of shortness of breath, when one literally “forgets” to breathe;

- mainly during exercise, a sensation of warmth in the abdomen is accompanied by stomach pressure, cramps, abdominal pain, and nausea;

- a cool forehead may cause dizziness, loss of balance, disorientation, a sensation of spinning or floating in the air, and unwanted drowsiness;

- transient hallucinations manifest as olfactory and gustatory hallucinations (for example, the smell of tobacco, perfume, or smoke), more often as auditory phenomena in which voices and noises are heard, sometimes even entire musical passages; sometimes sounds from the surroundings are heard quieter or louder than in reality; visual hallucinations manifest as seeing light, darkness, color, and movement; sometimes memories merge into actual “movies,” as in dreams;

- accompanying psychological phenomena sometimes include fear, depression, euphoria, or an increased need for affection;

- many beginners complain of an uncontrollable flood of ideas and thoughts, partly related to the day’s experiences they have not yet had time to process; partly, there are also constantly recurring intrusive thoughts.

Although these accompanying phenomena essentially serve a purpose and relieve tension, they are experienced as disturbances and obstacles on the path to success. Unfortunately, it is not possible to counteract them. It is best to accept them and trust that they will fade away as you continue practicing. While initially about half of practitioners complain about them, later on this figure drops to less than 7%.

AT for Healthy People

For a healthy person, AT helps achieve a more balanced attitude toward life, allowing them to cope more easily with the problems and troubles of everyday life. The training enhances their work performance, concentration, and memory, while also enabling them to achieve a state of brief relaxation, so to speak, “on demand” . There is virtually no life situation in which AT would not be helpful. Suggestions depend on the circumstances in each case. A person who follows the rules for formulating suggestions will always find a phrase that addresses their problem. But even the basic exercises contribute to coping with life more easily and effectively.

It can be said that in healthy individuals, AT brings about a fundamental improvement in one’s outlook on life, fosters positive expectations in every situation, eliminates paralyzing negative thoughts, fears, and inhibitions, and thus contributes to greater life satisfaction and faith in one’s own future, to noticing and enjoying the small joys of everyday life, and at the same time to more easily accepting the inevitable hardships that everyone faces. In this way, AT also indirectly protects against mental disorders and physical illnesses.

AT for Advanced Practitioners

An experienced practitioner can enter the state induced by the basic AT exercises within a minute. To do this, they must strongly suggest to themselves: Calmness — heaviness — warmth — heart and breath completely calm — the solar plexus radiates warmth — the forehead pleasantly cool — verbal phrases (30 times) or vivid mental images from the advanced exercises — recall.

At this stage of training, the practitioner can get to know themselves and deal with their conflicts, rather than merely masking them, as is the case during basic exercises. Advanced AT thus falls within the scope of depth psychology and should therefore be learned — whenever possible — under the guidance of a specialist.

Leibold, G. (1997). Hipnoza i autosugestia. Warszawa: Wydawnictwo Filar.

An interesting, yet unexplored, phenomenon is ASMR (Autonomous Sensory Meridian Response). It is a series of bodily sensations (and a shift in consciousness) leading to a reduction in arousal and an increase in positive emotions.

You can learn more about this topic from the scientific article:

Autonomous Sensory Meridian Response (ASMR): a flow-like mental state

Meanwhile, videos that induce this state in Polish can be found, for example, on the YouTube channel:

SoftAnnaPL

Various types of relaxation, along with the ability to customize them to your own needs, are available on (a free smartphone app has also been created):

Calm

A presentation of interesting research on coping with difficult situations (Polish subtitles available):

Kelly McGonigal: How to make stress your friend

SLEEP

Many people visit this site because they not only want to better cope with stress in the broadest sense, but also have issues with the duration and/or quality of their sleep. Below you will find interesting and scientifically proven tips on this topic.